Several studies have found correlations with the amount of time a couple waits to have sex and the quality of their relationship.
Those couples that wait until marriage report the highest satisfaction and quality (Willoughby, Carroll, & Busby, 2014): This study found that the longer a couple waited while dating to become sexually involved, the better their relationship was after marriage. With many couples, the physical intimacy part develops slowly (Back to Japan, 2011; Larkin, 2005). This lends to the slow (in American eyes) development of the physical aspects of dating.
Now, you’re probably familiar with the stereotype of Western guys moving to Japan to meet women.
Whatever your ethnicity, that level of chivalry tends to go right out the door after a few years of marriage…Recently ive been going on tokyo craigslist, but that place seems to be a dud I have only gotten 1 reply in the many emails I sent out and that was just them saying that they werent interested. I went on on their dating one, and signed up for a (free) account but I literally could not find a single woman on that site.All the reccomened users were men(i am not joking).These stats has been taken from our 250 interviews taken in Tokyo and Osaka from walking people around with 2 host.A man and a woman to make sure each participant are feeling comfortable and mostly, honest with their answers.