When it comes to persistence with women, there are two different scenarios guys usually fall into. The mentality of the guy who gets success is much different. If he doesn’t get the girl, he may feel bad for a short time, but overall he feels great because he is secure and centered in who he is.
How do you define what persistence is and what is pathetic? How many OLD messages do you send someone before giving up?The rule of thumb is this: Men just want to know that we aren’t wasting our time.Answering our calls, NOT chewing into the phone, and NOT taking 4 business days to respond to a text is enough to seem persistent.Obviously all situations have their own nuances so I realize it isn't a 100% of the time thing, I just felt in my situation she had shown some interest, and maybe just hit a dip, and it wasn't worth giving up completely.If there’s one issue that both men and women struggle with when it comes to dating is knowing how much persistence is good, and being able to spot when it crosses the line into straight-up desperation.