The child is already dealing with not having a mother and father married to each other and living together, and needs parental attention.
That child does not need to compete with you, and you don’t need to compete with that child.
With that being said, let’s discuss his absolute asinine reasons for not dating single moms. I’ve seen plenty of men share this blog post, saying “wow, so true!
But the fact of the matter remains that the kids are here, and they need to be cared for. I don’t expect anyone to run up and save me, because as far as I’m concerned, I can save myself, thank you very much. We all don’t need captains for our boats, we’re not all sinking. Once again, that sky- is-always-falling-so-she-can-have-attention type of woman is like that with or without kids. Apparently we all just want to use a guy to get our child’s father back or to just get free meals and gifts. He brought an airport carousel full of luggage to saddle one group of women with, but apparently we’re the ones with magazine amounts of issues. James seems to associate a horrible pathetic, pitiful, unattractive, and fat life for single mothers.
“He's insecure and desperately needs to demonstrate control.” So what if he ordered an eighty-dollar bottle of wine at dinner and drives a nice car?My friend dated a single mom and she was always breaking plans because of childcare issues, or suggesting he just come over and watch a movie. Maybe she’s like my friend and had a baby after just dating someone. I dated a single mom who had a lot of issues with her ex and I found that I got sucked into a lot of drama.I’m young and I want to have fun, out in the world, not be tied down to someone’s living room while her kid sleeps in the bedroom. I admire my friend for being a stand-up guy and taking care of his son, so my opinion of a woman doing the same … Also, her ex had issues with me being around his daughter because he was threatened by the relationship that was forming.I don’t have kids, but I want kids, so if she already has one or two, it would be a bonus.I would just be really cautious about getting close to the kid, because if it didn’t work out, I’d feel bad if the kid got attached, then hurt.” “I think it would be a pain.