To look more put together, try dark jeans, a slim-collar shirt, and a well-tailored suit jacket in gray—it reads more casual than black, less preppy than navy."Displaying your guts by completing questions like "On a typical Friday night I am..." and "I'm really good at..." will make you feel self-conscious and absurd— and that's normal.
Either way, the first step to a successful email is to sit down and think about the person you're writing to! It will spark the memory of your conversation and make them want to see what else you wrote... Don't go overboard, just something simple to show them you remember the conversation and are conscientious enough to care. You may want to hold off on asking them out, sometimes it takes people a couple emails to decide if they want to move to the next level of meeting for an actual date.
No matter how plausible a member seems never be persuaded to divulge personal information such as your date of birth; address; workplace or even email address or social network tags until you have met them in person at least once.
You could cast a wide net and sign up for every single dating site.
But three weeks (and six dates) from now, you'll realize that online dating is, for better and worse, just like regular dating—and not, sadly, like ordering a pizza online. It's boring, but dating-site handles aren't eligible for the Pulitzer.
Also, there's a specific place for you to talk up your hobbies, and it's not your handle, ILike Sexn Soccer. (And if they were, Ding Dong 9Inch Wong would take it every year.) All a username has to convey is "I'm not crazy." Your profile can take it from there.