10 questions to ask before dating

After the first two summers, I began to play a game with myself.On the first night of the session, I made a mental note of which women I thought the most attractive and compared that list to one I made after the four weeks.Even for men it is common to find a woman physically attractive over time.In my late 20s, I directed a summer institute for men and women ages 19-25.The names on the latter list were rarely on the first-night list.

But if you cannot say that the person you are considering marrying has become or is becoming your best friend, you need to figure out why before you decide to marry. As great as the sex may be (and great sex certainly adds to a marriage), even Hugh Hefner spends the vast majority of time doing other things. This sounds trite, but enjoying each other may actually be the single most important characteristic of a happy marriage. Dating for marriage is not an interview for a platonic best friend.

As Certified Relationship Coaches, we often get an inbox on our website asking us for the politically correct answer, what are the rules?

Is it ok if you met your friend’s ex a certain number of years after the initial relationship or is it just completely off limits for life?

If he can't pinpoint the time of his conversion, or at least the time frame in which it occurred, then it might not have ever happened. Is he counting on his good deeds, religious rituals, and winning smile to get to heaven, or does he describe coming to the point of recognizing his sinfulness, turning from his own path in life, and receiving Christ as his forgiver and leader?

He saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy, says Titus 3:5. When he talks about the future, is there room for God? Does he talk about seeking God's direction for his life?