Remember, the community isn’t just the people who support you, but the ones you want to swing with as well!If you come off too rough, you’re going to have issues.You don’t want to meet up with a couple only to find out everyone has been wasting time talking for no reason. If it’s a requirement of yours to only hook up on Fridays at someone else’s places, say so right away, If you hate rope bondage or seeing family photos or whatever, just make sure that you get it out in the open before you initiate any kind of relationship, sexual or even just friendship, with the people you meet as a result of your swinger dating profile. Remember that most of the people you’re going to be meeting have been in the scene for quite some time.
If you only want to hook up with women (or men), say so outright. If you say you’re a newbie even after several successful hookups, you won’t be meeting the right kind of people. These people will have dates on a regular basis, and they may or may not be having sexual relations.This period of courtship is sometimes seen as a precursor to engagement or marriage.You don’t have to be like most people who get into swinging, who do it all wrong. If you can nail this, you’ll be opening up a whole new and exciting world for yourself, and for your partner if you have one.Basically, in order to avoid some of the biggest, most egregious mistakes that people make when getting into swinging, remember to be respectful of wishes of people in the community.